Cicada

 A short reflection First about sleep. Some love this; some need to drink a pill for this. When we were kids, we played every single day and refused to sleep in the afternoon. Some kids could play, but others needed to work to feed themselves. Even as a baby, we sometimes woke up at night while mama and papa were tired; but most of the time it was mama who was the one, because papa acted like a king instead of a papa or even a husband. Anyhow, now, as adults, we prefer to sleep more and more and more, and play more and more and more.  When we were playing as kids, the adults told us we acted like children, small creatures, and instead of playing, the kids should go to bed. Now, as an adult, I cannot sleep very well because of nightmares since my childhood, the fight-or-flight-freeze response, and most of the time I fought in that war. I was jealous of others’ childhoods and how they were able to sleep for 6 hours without waking up, without having so many complex nightmares. I ...

  Bercerita, Berpuisi Menderita lalu Bercahaya Sewaktu itu, di Bukit Doa, Tomohon aku berjalan-jalan menyusuri hutan di awal jalan masuk tertulis: Harap Tenang jadi, untuk kamu jangan buru-buru Jangan cemas-cemas, mari tenang dulu lautan Banda kadang tenang, kadang juga senang, ketika gelombang datang di situ cara lautan menengankan  biar jangan buru-buru rehat sejenak, hela nafas sejenak lalu mari mulai berjalan menyusuri  p e n d e r i t a a n  menuju k e t e n a n g a n Jadi, kala itu, hutan sangat sunyi hanya derai daun dan burung-serangga menyanyi mari menyusuri, I Dia dijatuhi hukuman mati kabarnya untuk menyelamatkan manusia dari kuasa maut agar setiap manusia gembira karena begitu besar kasih-Nya memang wajah-Nya sedikit piluh sembari tangan-Nya dirantai II lalu, Dia kemudian memikul kayu berat - Kayu Selamat kayu ini ukurannya besar melebihi Dia tetapi dengan bertelangjang kaki dengan derita hakiki dia menuju perlahan-lahan demi kasih-Nya III Sayangnya, Dia ...

  at the end, the night, always, the same the morning waking u, dying always, the same as I’ve been feeling and thinking I am not that person there’s no the one for me always the one is leaving and, the pain is staying the wound is still bleeding the smile, almost vanish the eyes are leaving the talk, the call, are running through my mind like strom like in the Arafura I am the wave  during the east season in Arafura I can’t be the calm sea  too much tears on my ocean too much wound on my brain too much love for you that you left me, cause  I love too much with all my heart but since the 1999 my love still the same but I am not the same, again I am the wave during the east season in Arafura i cant be the calm sea  too much tears on my ocean too much wound on my brain I do miss you my little mono that stay inside of me I do miss you my little iko that keep fighting for me I do miss you but    the east season trap me I can’t come to you l can’t see you t...

 Pada pagi gelap beta mata terjaga melihat dinding beton serta plafon beta terdiam memikirkan segala hal yang tidak pasti beta ingin mati mimpi membunuh seseroang mengapa?

 Menerima pada detik-detik ini,  sembari kopi dan susu bercampur  lalu beta poro saki beta mulai belajar menerima menerima jikalau tidak akan ada yang tinggal tetap segalanya akan pergi tidak menetap tidak ada cinta yang menetap bisa jadi cinta dari Tuhan menetap tapi, sejauh ini cinta-cinta yang lain menjauh beta menjauh-jauh dibunuh membunuh waktu beta memulai belajar menerima jika beta tidak begitu penting beta tidak being seen beta miris dan ironis beta adalah ironi menderita dari dalam rindu menderita dari luar ruang dan waktu tidak mengapa juga sepertinya dunia memang begini bagi beta menerima takdir beta menjajah diri dijajah ingatan-ingatan beta tidak merdeka bahkan tidak perlu juga beta menerima jika beta tidak layak tidak layak tidak layak waktu pun beta terima tidak perlu dibunuh Bitung, 27 Juni 2026

Sewaktu itu, di Bukit Doa, Tomohon aku berjalan-jalan menyusuri hutan di awal jalan masuk tertulis: Harap Tenang jadi, untuk kamu jangan buru-buru Jangan cemas-cemas, mari tenang dulu lautan Banda kadang tenang, kadang juga senang, ketika gelombang datang di situ cara lautan menengankan biar jangan buru-buru rehat sejenak, hela nafas sejenak lalu mari mulai berjalan menyusuri p e n d e r i t a a n menuju k e t e n a n g a n Jadi, kala itu, hutan sangat sunyi hanya derai daun dan burung-serangga menyanyi mari menyusuri, I Dia dijatuhi hukuman mati kabarnya untuk menyelamatkan manusia dari kuasa maut agar setiap manusia gembira karena begitu besar kasih-Nya memang wajah-Nya sedikit piluh sembari tangan-Nya dirantai II lalu, Dia kemudian memikul kayu berat - Kayu Selamat kayu ini ukurannya besar melebihi Dia tetapi dengan bertelangjang kaki dengan derita hakiki dia menuju perlahan-lahan demi kasih-Nya III Sayangnya, Dia lalu terjatuh piluh luka-lukanya memenuhi tubuh Kayu Selamat sungguh ...

 How can I found a person like you again or do I have to wait as in the song Until I found the first song that I played and then your recorded me in the island and the morning we were sitting on the small port staring at the sunrise staring at your eyes we were smiling and kissing through our eyes I love, Mi Amorr hermosa how are you today? how are you yesterday? how are you last night? how was your sleep? what about Lele? what about your swimming? what about your fingers? are they still hurt, after typing so much? how is the pasta? you love it how is dad and mom, or Fransica and Claudia? Jack and luke too? how are you? I wanna lean on you  crying with you listening to you talk with you sleep together I miss you I am praying the Hail Mary, hold you protect you from the world I love you 19 June 2026

 Is it worth it? loosing someone that I love for my dream that is hurting and making me suffer? I don't know the answer to my own question, I just miss her I wish somebody really wants to stay with me in my worst and never leave, even if I tell her maybe God, maybe, I don't know I just hope and if she never comes I might come to her  but I am afraid I am going to scare and hurt her too, like I did before I don't know I love myself, but don't how to treat myself well I don't know how to love again It is very hard for me to feel loved or to love someone yeah so sad  I hope

Pada akhirnya masing-masing kita memberi luka menerima luka dan ingin dicintai seperti seorang bayi namun tidak banyak bayi juga beruntung ada yang belum lahir sudah dibunuh ada yang setelah lahir dipaksa menjadi dewasa sebelum dewasa ada pula yang lahir dan saat tumbuh belajar membunuh membunuh orang lain membunuh perasaannya membunuh cintanya akhirnya dia menjadi lupa siapa dirinya ahh memang begini saja hidup harusnya biasa biasa saja tidak perlu bermimpi tinggi harapan seadanya saja karena besok juga hujan tetap ada besok panas tetap ada kapan aku tiada? tapi sepertinya aku akan selalu ada

 daney, if you ever read this: cupcake I miss you

 Hari ini beta di Dreihouse, salah satu cafe yang lumayan fancy dan mahal. Beta datang ke sini karena seng tau mau biking apa di rumah di wayame. Lalu teringat Yusak pung pesan untuk main-main ke sini, karena ada banyak yang manis-manis. hahaha. Tapi, terkait dengan PTSD di depan beta duduk barista sedang membuat kopi. Ada bunyi pukulan, dan beta kaget, karena seperti bunyi bom pica atau lemparan batu. Dulu di atas Batu Merah beta lempari para "Muslim" yang beta anggap musuh. Waktu itu beta masih SD. Dan membunuh untuk pertahanan hidup yang beta pelajari. Demikian catatan PTSD kali ini. Semoga malam ini beta tidak mimpi buruk lagi. 27 Mei 2026

Tepat setahun lalu di hari ini beta menulis surat terakhir untuk kepergian selamanya. Tetapi beta melewati masa-masa pedih itu, dan sekarang beta menulis ini dari rumah di Ambon. Terima kasih untuk segala rasa cinta, rasa sakit, rasa pedih, rasa ditinggalkan, rasa ingin mati, rasa ingin bunuh diri, terima kasih untuk semuanya.  24 Mei, 2026

 I am tired and I am tired and I am tiread and I am tired: depressed

Every day, you are in my mind I miss you every second I pray for you I just wanna see you and hug you, Sleep together until 9.30 am I wanna be with you I miss you

 I can't stop thinking about you my morning and night full of you my sleep and my waking-up is you I love you I wanna hug you, mi amor I am sorry for not treating you well But I am not sorry for my love for meeting you in my dream in my life in the ocean in the morning at 6 am looking at your eyes while gazing you deep and I do love you I wanna meet you again and again holding your hands not one hand but both while hugging and kissing you with all the energy that I have  Daney, I love you my six seconds kiss to you 12th of May

c u p c a k e May, 3rd 2026

 I am very tired with myself :) :(

 Sioo ee Upuu Upuu latu Upuu lanite Upuu rohua Sioo ee au susah sandiri au balisa, pariki ea! ehe e ehenala au tehu hatuai kandio

 Life has not been up and down to me Sometimes it's heavy, most of the time is heavy actually Waking up is hard Sleeping at night is harder, too My brain is flooding with too much emotion and unwanted memories i keep repeat the path of my past sometimes I want crush some people sometimes I want crush my self too I just wanna walk along the beach while holding hands with someone that stay in storm and calm in pain and happiness in life with me no matter what but yeah I don't know I am tired though of my life I wanna stop the time I wanna sleep but wake in the ocean I wanna breath in without having flashbacks I wanna do that and this but with you Geser, 2 April 2026